Married & A Sideline Hoe..

Often I meet people who are married, so in love devoted & looking to spend the rest of their lives with this one person but yet this one person doesn't feel the same. I was listening to Monica's song "Sideline Hoe" which she tells a female who wants her man you will never be in my place because I am Number 1. Yet is number 1 always the best place? It should be but why be number 1 when in actuality your not because you are sharing the one you are so devoted to, to someone else. Yes you can be married have the ring, do all the things right and you are still the sideline hoe. Most of the time a person knows this, but their first reaction is to find the real hoe right?! Thats the wrong place to begin find your man and check him. Even men can be sideline hoes, the sideline has no discrimination. What happened to marriages being what they were, when they meant and stood for something? Maybe they will come back and number 1 will always and only be that Number 1!!!